Love & Basketball Doesn’t Sacrifice Anything for the Happy Ending (2024)

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By Olivia Truffaut-Wong, a Cut contributor covering culture

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In this micro-series, the Cut revisits five Hollywood classics about female ambition.

You can’t talk about the portrayal of female ambition onscreen without talking about Gina Prince-Bythewood’s Love & Basketball. And not just because it’s one of the best female-driven sports movies of all time. It’s a celebration of one woman’s ambition, yes — but as a debut feature, it’s also an example of female ambition behind the camera. The then-29-year-old Prince-Bythewood went on to become one of the most successful Black female directors in Hollywood.

Over time, Love & Basketball became a classic, even though when it was released in 2000 it had a mediocre run at the box office. (It reportedly grossed $27 million on a $15 million budget.) Nonetheless, it was well received by critics, and went to home release before becoming regular programming on cable. I had a rule growing up that if I was channel-surfing and stumbled on Love & Basketball, I would watch it, no matter what — I wasn’t the only one.

When Prince-Bythewood first started working on Love & Basketball, her goal was twofold. As she told The Hollywood Reporter, she set out to make a “Black When Harry Met Sally,” and to tell a story that would show that “women could have both — love and career.” At its core, Love & Basketball is a love story that celebrates a woman prioritizing her own needs ahead of her boyfriend’s, a delightful change for a generation of women used to watching women sacrifice their ambitions for love. The film follows Monica (Sanaa Lathan, in her first of many romantic leads), a young Black woman growing up in L.A. who dreams of being a basketball player, and her on-and-off relationship with her next door neighbor, Quincy (Omar Epps), the son of an NBA legend desperate to get out of his shadow. After hooking up in high school, Quincy and Monica spend the first year of their college basketball careers together at USC before it all falls apart.

Midway through the movie, Quincy guilts Monica for having to make curfew to ensure she can play on the team. He wants her to stay out and comfort him — he’s just found out that his dad has been cheating on his mom — and in his sadness, can’t stand that she’s prioritizing her play, her game, over his immediate needs. After that, their relationship isn’t the same. She becomes a starter, and Quincy ends up cheating on her, breaking up with her, and dropping out to join the NBA.

I always saw Quincy and Monica’s breakup as one that happened because Quincy’s ego was too fragile, his selfishness too blinding, for him to respect Monica’s dreams of going pro. It didn’t occur to me until a couple years ago that there were people that interpreted the fight differently, who thought Monica was wrong for not staying out past curfew when Quincy really needed her. I had honestly never before considered that Quincy might have a point — wasn’t he just a self-centered man who didn’t believe in a woman’s ability to play basketball as seriously as men? While I can see the other side now, I’m glad that it took so long for me to understand Quincy’s side. Because it let me believe that women could put our ambitions first — that we should.

This is emphasized by how the film treats Monica’s flaws. Sure she’s quick to anger, perhaps a bit too passionate sometimes, and, yes, cares more about the sport than nurturing her relationship. But there are reasons for that, too. Unlike Quincy, who becomes a star player his first season at USC, Monica must fight for a spot on the starting line. She knows there is more pressure on her to succeed as a woman, and as unfair as it is, she’s right. As she tells Quincy, “You talk smack and you get a pat on your ass. But because I’m a female, I get told to calm down and act like a lady. I’m a ball player.”

The two eventually find their way back together, but Monica must first learn to balance her personal life and her professional one. Most importantly, she does it without sacrificing any part of herself — not her loyalty to her team, not her passion for basketball, and not her self respect. The only thing she has to do is be honest with him about her feelings and do what she does best: play ball. In a grand romantic gesture, Monica challenges Quincy to a game of one-on-one for his heart. And here, her professional ambitions don’t cost her anything — they actually help her win him back.

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What is the message behind love and basketball? ›

As she told The Hollywood Reporter, she set out to make a “Black When Harry Met Sally,” and to tell a story that would show that “women could have both — love and career.” At its core, Love & Basketball is a love story that celebrates a woman prioritizing her own needs ahead of her boyfriend's, a delightful change for ...

Did Q cheat on Monica? ›

Monica also feels the sting of lost trust when Quincy's wandering eye causes him to cheat on her. The virtues of friendship are explored as Quincy and Monica try to balance school, basketball and a deep love for one another. Sexual Content: Coarse sexual slang and content mars the film.

Do they break up in love and basketball? ›

The pressures of their athletic and academic commitments, coupled with their deteriorating relationship, cause them to break up. The fourth quarter follows the plot to 1993, a few years before the establishment of the WNBA. Monica and Quincy are both professional basketball players.

Why did Monica give up basketball? ›

Monica also has problems with her mother Camille, a stay at home wife and mother; ever since she was a little girl Monica has been pressured by Camille to give up basketball and "act like a lady", to the point that Camille would force her to wear dresses and skirts against her will.

What was the conflict between love and basketball? ›

Monica faces sexist behavior and attitudes from those closest to her as she proves basketball is just as important to her as it is to male players. Quincy's dad is an abandoning, philandering father figure and Quincy works hard throughout the film not to turn out like him.

What is the plot of Love and basketball? ›

Was Monica a virgin in love and basketball? ›

Nothing about Monica had changed at that dance. She was the same girl from next door but suddenly, because she looked differently, and others were attracted to her, he decides he wanted her and leaves with her virginity. Clearly, she offers herself to him, but she had loved him since they were children.

Why is love and basketball not a good movie? ›

I think partly that's due to the love story being fragmented. Which is, again, a result of covering years in a movie - the script writer has to pick and choose what events are most important. A few of the supporting roles I did not care for as much. Her mom's character's personality made no sense to me.

Who cheated on Monica? ›

Chandler was meant to cheat on Monica in Friends - until Matthew Perry intervened - AS USA.

Who got pregnant in love and basketball? ›

Let it go. Sidra O'Neal : The ONLY reason you here, is 'cause Tanya Randall got pregnant, and decided not to come. They were DONE recruiting.

Was love and basketball based on a true story? ›

The main characters are Monica Wright, played by Sanaa Lathan, and Quincy McCall, played by Omar Epps. 4. Is Love & Basketball based on a true story? No, Love & Basketball is a fictional story written by Gina Prince-Bythewood.

Do Sanaa Lathan and Omar Epps have a child together? ›

Sanaa Lathan's fast facts. Do Sanaa Lathan and Omar Epps have a child together? Unfortunately, no. The two dated during the Love & Basketball film filming but do not have a child together.

Who is Quincy's father in love and basketball? ›

Dennis Haysbert - In "Love & Basketball," I play Zeke... | Facebook.

Why did Monica get fired? ›

After accepting a kickback in the form of five steaks, Monica was fired from her job as a chef. Phoebe's firings Rachel may be the most prolific workplace offender, but Phoebe also gets a mention for the number of roles she manages to churn through during the show and her reaction when given the boot.

Why was Monica infertile? ›

Monica was diagnosed as having a “hostile” cervical environment, a condition in which a woman's cervical mucus is abnormally acidic, scarce or dense, thus preventing sperm from traveling through the cervix and into the uterine cavity and Fallopian tubes to fertilize a mature egg.

What happened at the end of Love and basketball? ›

Monica and Quincy do end up together, and basketball is still part of their lives; Monica, by the film's conclusion, is part of the newly formed WNBA, even playing for the Los Angeles Sparks, their hometown team.

Was Love and basketball based on a true story? ›

The main characters are Monica Wright, played by Sanaa Lathan, and Quincy McCall, played by Omar Epps. 4. Is Love & Basketball based on a true story? No, Love & Basketball is a fictional story written by Gina Prince-Bythewood.

What is the message of ex basketball player by John Updike? ›

I could say that the theme of “Ex-basketball” focuses on the fact that if one does not work hard on achieving their goals, they will not succeed in reaching their dream. In fact, the outcome of not reaching your goals can lead to frustration and disappointment in life.

How did Lebron fall in love with basketball? ›

“When I was 4, 5 years old, I started playing on a crate. We cut the bottom out, nailed it to the light pole, me and my friends. No backboard, so every shot had to go straight in, or you didn't make it. And I remember that joy — playing on the street, cars interrupting our game, the ball going into the woods.

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